“Separation Anxiety” comes when entering the kindergarten
It is now when a group of babies are about to enter kindergarten for the first time. KomiksFaced with the upcoming “psychological weaning”, parents and children are going to go through the “separation Anxiety period”. So, what preparations should parents do before entering the kindergarten to help themselves and their children deal with the “separation anxiety” of entering the kindergarten?
As the name suggests, the anxiety state of the child’s first visit to the child is the anxiety state. It is a kind of anxiety state that the child shows when he goes to the child for the first time.
It is normal for the anxiety to enter the kindergarten. Even the most confident Komiks will feel a little nervous when they go to kindergarten for the first time. KomiksThey want to separate from their favorite parents. What is the kindergarten like? I’m afraid to make new friends!
However, entering kindergarten is very important for children. The anxiety of entering kindergarten can also be overcome slowly.
CinemaWhat are the anxiety about entering the garden? ▼
▍Unwilling to leave her parents
At the entrance of the kindergarten, he hugged his parents’ thighs, refused to let go, watching him being sent to the kindergarten, and even crying and making a fuss, he used all the tricks that could be used, saying “I don’t want to go to the kindergarten!”
▍KomiksNo interest in new things
After being sent to kindergarten, the babies Babaylan are not interested in anything: they are not interested in playing games, are not interested in new children, and are not interested in lunch at lunch.
▍Special quiet
Babaylan It is very quiet and unwilling to speak. No matter what the teacher asks, he doesn’t respond.
▍The keywords are particularly sensitive when they mention mother, father, and home.
The keywords are usually hidden in a corner in the kindergarten, but when they hear the keywords “Dad”, “Mom” and “Home”, they are particularly sensitive, and they react very much, and they cry endlessly.
My parents and babies are like KomiksHow to overcome “separation anxiety”? ▼
▍Talk to the old and the children before school starts
Enter the kindergarten and look at the classroom, and try to communicate with the school and teachers in advance. When talking to the baby about going to school, you must also emphasize that going to kindergarten is a happy thing. Never say things like “If you are disobedient, you will send you to kindergarten”. Who is not afraid of such words!
The whole family will mobilize and talk more and moreCinema tells the baby: “You have grown up and it is great to be able to go to kindergarten, it is the pride of your parents! ”
▍Relieve baby’s anxiety through games
Use toys to simulate the situation of going to kindergarten, let the baby be a mother, and treat the doll as a child, tell the baby that this short separation is safe when going to kindergartenYes, no problem.
It is OK to play hide-and-seek. This kind of game can help children experience “safe separation” and relieve the anxiety of separation from you.
▍In the transition period, give a photo
You can choose your most warm and loving photos to print them, make them into necklaces, stickers, etc., and take your baby to kindergarten, so that they can slightly relieve the pain of longing.
▍Make enough sleep
Let the child go to bed 15 minutes earlier than usual, so that he can sleep enough and have enough energy to face new things.
▍Take your child to the school first
FaceBabaylanIt is difficult to avoid children’s anxiety about the new environment. Getting in the new environment in advance will help alleviate this anxiety.
Make a plan and take your baby to the kindergarten. Tell me about the trees next to you, what you can see through the classroom windows, what other older children may play in the playground, etc.
Every time the kindergarten starts its new school year, many parents of new students are worried. Some parents were so distressed that they wiped their tears outside when they saw their children crying in the classroom; some parents would wait outside the kindergarten door and secretly look inside through the gaps in the fence.
What makes teachers even more worried is that they not only have to comfort their children, but also shoulder the important task of comforting their parents. You should know that babies sometimes become anxious because of their parents’ excessive tension, so moms and dads should be stronger!
Student admission is about to begin. I hope that every little baby will survive the anxiety period of separation with the help of his parents and teachers, and grow up happily and healthilyBabaylan!
Source｜Xinhuanet
Picture｜VideoBabaylanSense China
Editor｜Cui Wencan