“Separation Anxiety” comes when entering the kindergarten
There is a time when CinemaBabaylans babies are about to enter kindergarten for the first time. Facing the upcoming “psychological weaning”, parents and children have to go through a “separation anxiety period”. So, what preparations should parents do before entering the kindergarten to help themselves and their children deal with the “separation anxiety” of entering the kindergarten?
As the name suggests, an anxiety state that a child shows when he goes to kindergarten for the first time. It is a kind of separation anxiety.
It is normal for the anxiety to enter the kindergarten. Even the most confident children will feel a little nervous when they go to kindergarten for the first time. They have to separate from their favorite parents. What is the kindergarten like? I’m afraid to make new friends!
However, entering kindergarten is a very important step for children, and the anxiety about entering kindergarten can be overcome slowly.
BaoCinemaWhat are the anxiety about entering the park? ▼
▍Unwilling to leave her parents
At the entrance of the kindergarten, he held the thighs of Cinema‘s parents, and refused to let go. He was about to be sent to the kindergarten. Cinema even cried and made a fuss, using all the tricks that could be used, saying “I don’t want to go to the kindergarten!”
Komiks▍No interest in new things
After being sent to the kindergarten, the babies were not interested in anything: they were not interested in playing gamesBabaylan Interesting, not interested in new children, not interested in lunch.
▍SpecialBabaylan‘s quiet
It’s very quiet, unwilling to speak, and he didn’t respond no matter what the teacher asked.
▍The keywords mentioned by mother, Babaylan‘s father, and home are particularly sensitive
Cinema Only in a corner in kindergarten, but when I heard the keywords “Dad”, “Mom”, “HomeKomiks” were particularly sensitive, and I was very responsive and cried.
How do parents and babies overcome “separation anxiety”? ▼
▍Talk to the old and children before school starts
Enter the kindergarten and take a look at the classroom, and try to communicate with the school and teachers in advance. When talking to your baby about going to school, you must also emphasize that going to kindergarten is Komiks If you are happy about Cinema, you must not say something like “KomiksIf you don’t listen to Babaylan, you will send you to kindergarten”. Who will not be afraid of hearing such words!
The whole family mobilized, talk more and encourage more, and told the baby: “You have grown upKomiks href=”https://funnybookish.com/”>Cinema, it is great to be able to go to kindergarten, it is the pride of my parents! ”
▍Relieve baby’s anxiety through games
Use toys to simulate the situation of going to kindergarten, let the baby be a mother, and treat the doll as a child, tell the baby that this short separation is safe when going to kindergartenYes, no problem.
It is also OK to play hide-and-seek. This kind of game can help children experience “safe separation” and relieve the anxiety of separation between the baby and you.
▍In the transition period, give a photo
You can choose the most warm and loving photos of yours to print them into necklaces, stickers, etc., and take them to kindergarten for your baby so that they can slightly relieve the pain of longing.
▍Make enough sleep
Let the child go to bed 15 minutes earlier than usual to ensure that he has enough sleep and enough energy to face new things.
▍Take your child to the school first
It is difficult for children to feel anxious when facing a new environment. It is difficult to avoid exposure to the new environment in advance. Getting in the new environment in advance will help alleviate this anxiety.
Make a plan and take your baby to the kindergarten. Tell the baby what trees are next to it, what you can see through the classroom window, what other older children may be playing in the playground, etc. Babaylan
Every time the kindergarten starts its new school year, many parents of new students are worried. Some parents would watch their children crying in the classroom, and they would feel distressed and wipe their tears outside; some would wait outside the kindergarten door and look in secret through the gaps in the fence.
What makes teachers even more worried is that they not only need to comfort their children, but also shoulder the heavy responsibility of comforting their fathers. You should know that babies sometimes become anxious because of their parents’ excessive tension, so moms and dads should be stronger!
Children’s admission is about to begin. I hope that every little baby will survive the anxiety period of separation with the help of his parents and teachers and grow up happily and healthily!
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Editor｜CuiKomiksWen Can